If we follow the stages of psychological training in human motivation, we found that the first active in the child's life is the physiological motivations such as the need for food, sleep and movement, and psychological motivations appear Caldoaf to explore the outside world and the need for affection and reassurance and emotional trends and tendencies of different social.
The question which imposes itself on us is whether all of these motives are psychological and social motivations as a result of physiological growth and as a result of the acquisition and exercise in a family environment? Or is this a special source of psychological motivation for an independent source of motivation but physiological sources of impact and influence each other and interact together?.
To apply that to women, looking at her life as a movement and one going through the stages of growth towards the upper function, but any higher mission towards motherhood. What we see is that the woman's personality consists of three ranks or roles she is one of the destination and destination biological female psychological woman belonging to the human race and social destination wife and mother.
When the world deals with the study of these three roles, it focuses its view in a study of female libido and his view of women in the study of love and his wife in a study of the marriage system. Is it after finishing the study will address the libido passion like love is derived from the sexual instinct and love is not only uphold the essence of the sexual instinct, and that the marriage system is not intended only to regulate this instinct. If you follow this opinion, so he will have the extension of human nature to the fullest extent and response at the end of the matter to the nature of pure animal then becomes what we call the integration process of deception and disguise.
There is no doubt that there is more in love than in libido and the proof is that the possibility of some separation between libido and love with the knowledge that the principle is the union Monday in rights. The sexual instinct common to animal and human love is but a special man, is witness to the existence of mental and spiritual principle in man. If life was purely sensory in time to appear before the emergence of emotion love is not love prefer not preceded in the order of values because life is sensual in human but animal-like life is dyed from the outset dye humanity.
No doubt that the sexual instinct element of love is that it creates a gravity between the sexes, but gravity factor to restrict the refraction of the freedom it imposes itself presumably has fade away suddenly and without apparent reason, and next to the gravity there is another substance different from the essence of gravity because it involves the freedom and choice and this It can be called the call, love responds chosen freely to this appeal not be hoarding and acquisitions but have Balbzl, giving and self-denial, and here I mean the love that is characterized in substance from the sexual instinct, which belongs to the spiritual side, which distinguishes the - whether we like it or not - the human animal.
Attractive on the one hand and a call the other hand, the need for restriction of the freedom to choose the one hand and on the other.
The scourge of gravity they disappear after a saturation which is not soon long to leave behind a vacuum and the bitterness and concern, and the appeal, which responds to his love and who pays respondent to do the same and the denial of itself does not lead never saturation and thus to the vacuum bitter, but still his voice heard because the voice of hope and gives the same meet to this call back to him for his gift that he will find himself richer and more complete.
Those are the considerations that must be taken into account when we talk about integration of sexual drives, motivations, emotional, Valatefh after emergence, which regulate the sex drive so as not to control human behavior. Women are human beings first before being an animal which is not only a center of gravity, but the source of the call spiritual man does not find true happiness only in meeting this appeal.
As well as motherhood is not just an extension of the sexual instinct, but is the meaning of involving more than sex appeal of the Princess. As that love the full guarantee of freedom of the two individuals who were joined in emotion and one Motherhood in turn ensures the existence of freedom for himself because it is integrated sexual instinct, love and thanks to the triumph of freedom and the spirit necessary to the article.
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